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5 great ways to handle interruptions from habitual socializers...
- By Rodger Constandse
- Published 08/24/2008
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Rodger Constandse
Rodger Constandse has spent the last several years figuring out how be more productive and successful... and how to help other people do the same.
View all articles by Rodger ConstandseInterruptions
are a normal part of work life, especially if you are a smart and talented
worker or manager. It's only natural for your colleagues and staff to want to talk to
you if you can help them with their work.
Whether you answer difficult questions, provide guidance, or point people in
the right direction, helping others can be a valuable service to your team and
your company.
That being said, unexpected interruptions can also be a tremendous drain and
time waster. The key to handle interruptions effectively is to distinguish the
important interruptions from the true time wasters and ensure that you are
making the best use of your time in each case.
You should also take active steps to reduce the number and frequency of
unexpected interruptions, particularly the ones that end up wasting your time,
without sacrificing your team's productivity in the process.
Here are a few practical tips for dealing with and reducing unexpected
interruptions from habitual socializers.
* Habitual Socializers *
Some of your frequent drop-ins or telephone calls may be habitual socializers
that are not interested in your help or guidance, and they don't really want to get to know
you better either, but are merely looking for an excuse to procrastinate or pass some time.
If you have to deal with this type of drop-in visitor on a regular basis, you
may need to reserve a special strategy for managing their interruptions.
Instead of inviting them in with friendly question, you may need to use a less
inviting prompt to discourage the interruption unless it is truly important.
For example:
Visitor: "Got a minute?"
You: "Actually, I'm in the middle of something right now. Can this
wait?"
or
You: "I'm really busy right now, is it something urgent?"
The majority of habitual socializers will realize you don't have any interest
in socializing at that moment and try to find someone else to talk to. If they
do have something legitimate to discuss they will say so and you can then
decide how to proceed.
You should reserve this tactic only for people that you've identified as
habitual socializers through repeated patterns of abuse. The rest of your colleagues and staff
deserve the benefit of the doubt.
This does not mean that you should eliminate all socializing, because it is an
important part of effective team building. However, you do have the right to
decide when you want to socialize and when you want to work. Like everything
else, having a balance is the key.
Set aside some time for socializing with your colleagues, but do it in a way
that represents a win-win for everyone.
Here are some other ideas for handling interruptions from habitual socializers effectively
and tactfully:
1. Make it clear that your workspace is for working - When a habitual
socializer drops by, step out to speak to him or her if at all possible. This will send the message
that things need to be kept short and sweet.
2. Stand when speaking to the visitor - When you go to someone's office on
business, what is the first thing that person usually asks you to do? Sit down,
of course. The visitor will feel much more comfortable when they are at the
same eye level with you, rather than "talking down" to you. Sitting
down allows a person to feel more relaxed and not to feel rushed.
Standing up will "take the pressure" off and make the visitor feel
more comfortable without having to sit down.
3. Nip repeat social visits in the bud - If there is one certain person who
keeps coming by "just to talk" for extended periods of time when you
are busy trying to work, you may need to use a different tactic. Some people
are more persistent than others and just don't get it. You may have to just
talk to them, set some boundaries, and ask them to respect them.
Make it clear that while you value your relationship with them, you'd rather
socialize at a different time. Offer to have a chat with them during lunch, or during a
pre-arranged coffee break.
4. Make time for business drop-ins - When it is a client who is dropping in
unexpectedly, you will probably want to make time for him or her if at all
possible. Many times when clients come by unexpectedly, it is because they do
not feel that what they need is important or time-consuming enough to warrant
an appointment. If the request will only take a minute or two of your time, complying
will bolster your relationship with the client.
If what the client wants is going to take up more time than you can afford to
lose, or they start abusing your time, politely ask him or her to come back
later or make an appointment. Most people won't mind doing so.
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