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Confident Decision Making
- By Brian Tracy
- Published 09/25/2008
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Brian Tracy
Brian Tracy is Chairman and CEO of Brian Tracy
International, a company specializing in the training and development of
individuals and organizations.
Brian's goal is to help you achieve your personal and business goals faster and
easier than you ever imagined.
Just imagine that someone gave you a simple but powerful computer that had
the capacity to answer any question or solve any problem you would ever face.
All you would have to do is properly program the problem into the computer.
Then, at exactly the right time, it would bring you exactly the answer that you
need; the answer would always be perfectly correct for you.
The fact is that you already have such a computer, and its installed right
between your ears. The only real difference between extremely effective men and
women and men and women who are not happy with their results is the degree to
which they use this amazing computer. The wonderful thing is that you can
easily learn to use this computer, and when you do, you will immediately start
to benefit by making better decisions and getting better results.
To begin, its important for you to understand that your brain is divided into
two hemispheres, commonly called the right brain and the left brain. Extensive
research suggests that each part of the brain is responsible for specific
functions.
Your left brain tends to be responsible for linear, sequential, orderly and
organized functions. It is practical, analytical and skeptical. It is the part
of the brain that deals with categories and concrete things. Your left brain
deals with the verbal, the mathematical and the scientific. It is the
engineering half of the brain, and it is primarily focused on processing facts
in a step-by-step fashion.
Your right brain, on the other hand, is very different. Your right brain is
holistic and spontaneous. While your left brain deals with individual details,
your right brain deals with complete pictures and fully integrated ideas and
situations. Your right brain is also in charge of your creative, musical and
artistic abilities. It is responsible for dance and singing and laughter. Your
right brain is also responsible for the intuitive processes of thinking,
feeling, problem solving and decision making.
When you learn to harmonize the operations of both of these brains so they work
together in cooperation, you begin to perform at exceptional levels. In fact,
men and women begin to become great when they begin to utilize the marvelous
capacities of the right brain, especially for making important decisions.
An intuitive decision, one that comes to you from within, is always superior to
anything else that you can arrive at by simply considering the facts and
details. An intuitive decision integrates all of your knowledge about a subject
simultaneously and gives you an answer that is a superior synthesis to anything
that you could have worked out in a step-by-step fashion. This is why the men
and women who are at the top of virtually all organizations tend to be
extremely intuitive in the way they solve problems and make decisions for
themselves and others.
Ralph Waldo Emerson called intuition the still, small voice within. This inner
voice is like an unfailing guide or mechanism that always tells you the correct
thing to do or say. The more you trust it and believe in it, the better and
more accurately it works for you. And your ability to use your intuitive
decision-making powers precedes and predicts your success and effectiveness in
virtually everything you do.
To trigger your intuition and tap into higher levels of your mind on a regular
basis, you need to have four mental qualities. The first, as I mentioned, is a
complete trust and belief, almost a childlike faith, in your intuition, and the
disposition to just go with the flow of your inner mind. Your intuition
functions effortlessly and works best when you stop trying to make something
happen and instead just let go and accept whatever solution comes to you.
The second mental quality that enables you to use your intuition more
efficiently is a positive mental
attitude. By this, I mean that you are simply calm, relaxed and cheerful
about outcomes. A positive mental attitude has been described as a constructive
response to stress and adversity. When you respond in a relaxed, easygoing way,
you create the mental climate that enables your brain to function at its best,
and this is what triggers your intuition.
The third mental quality for enhancing your intuition is an attitude of confident expectation. The
more positive and more confident you are, the sharper and quicker your
intuitions and solutions will be. So confidently expect things to go well for
you. Look for the valuable lesson in every difficulty and adversity. Seek out
the advantage or benefit in each setback or obstacle that you face. Your
conscious decision to keep your mind focused on the good parts of your
situation, coupled with your refusal to dwell on the negative parts, will give
you a mind that functions at its best to help you achieve your goals.
The fourth mental quality for intuitive decision
making is listening. Women tend to be better at listening to their
intuition than men are. This is probably why womens intuition is so much more
respected than mens intuition is. However, both men and women have the same
intuitive abilities. All they have to do is listen to them on a regular basis.
Most of our mistakes in life result from ignoring our intuition or refusing to
listen to our intuition because we think that by doing so, we will be better
off. It always turns out to be a mistake.
There are three areas where you can use your intuition continuously to enable
you to make better decisions and avoid costly mistakes. The first place where
intuition plays a major role is in your personal relationships. Whether it is
with your spouse or child or a friend, your intuition will always tell you the
right thing to do or say. All you need to do, in any situation, is to quietly
turn to your intuition and listen, and then say or do what seems to be the most
proper and natural thing to do.
In my experience, one of the major reasons for problems in relationships is
that one or both parties are ignoring their intuition and refusing to listen to
it or act on it. People get into, or out of, relationships, or make decisions
in their interactions with others, even when, deep inside, they know that they
are doing the wrong thing. And if ever you do the wrong thing from the standpoint
of your intuition, you always create a problem that is bigger and more
difficult to deal with than if you had made the intuitive decision at the
beginning. Many people actually make themselves physically ill by refusing to
follow their intuition and do what they know is the right thing to do.
A second area where your intuitive decision-making capabilities can be
extremely helpful is in business. If you listen quietly, you will always get a
good feeling, or intuition, about the right thing to do, or not to do, in every
business situation. If you are in sales, when you are with a prospect or a
client, you can rely completely on your intuition to tell you what to do and
what to say, and when you follow it, you will always find that it is the right
thing. Many salespeople have told me of their having a sudden impulse to bring
up a particular subject in a sales interview, and later finding that it was
exactly the right thing to say at exactly the right time. In fact, all top
salespeople tend to trust their intuition and listen to it continuously in
their sales work.
The third, and perhaps the most obvious, area to use your intuitive abilities
is in the area of making choices. Whether you are communicating or negotiating
or buying or selling, or accepting or leaving a job, you are always making
choices of one kind or another. Some of these choices are not important, but
many of them have potentially serious long-term consequences.
Accepting a job, or a salary, or going to work for a particular company, at a
particular time, can have a significant impact on the whole direction of your
life. Investing or spending or borrowing money for any reason can have
significant long-term consequences. Any decision that has results that last
long after you have made the decision is the kind of decision to which you need
to apply your amazing intuitive powers.
Fortunately, there are some specific steps that you can take to hone your
intuitive mind. Select any area of your life, any problem or situation that you
are dealing with at the current time, and begin to program it into your mental
computer by taking the following steps. First, define your problem or situation
clearly, in writing if possible. Your mind cannot go to work to bring you the
right answer if the question itself is jumbled up and unclear. Exactly what are
you trying to achieve, avoid or preserve? Is it a single problem, or is it a
cluster problema problem made up of several smaller problems? Whichever it is,
take some time to think it out and describe it clearly on paper so that you
know exactly what you are trying to do. This is the beginning of the intuitive
process.
Once you have a clear idea of the problem, ask yourself, What else is the
problem? Are you dealing with a real problem, or are you simply dealing with a
symptom of a deeper problem? Many people try to solve a problem with their
dissatisfaction at work or in a relationship, but often, the real problem is
that they are in the wrong job or relationship altogether. There is an old
saying, There is a price that you can pay to be free of any problem, and you
always know what it is. This is just another way of saying that if you listen
to your intuition, it will tell you the right thing to do, although the right
thing may not be the easy or convenient thing. But you must keep your mind
open, in any case.
Once you have defined your problem clearly, begin to research and read and
gather information about the problem. Has anyone else had this problem before
you? What did he do about it? Dont try to reinvent the wheel. Sometimes a
little research will turn up exactly the answer you are seeking.
For several months, two scientists at the IBM research laboratories in Zurich,
Switzerland, had been intensely working on the problems of superconductivity.
They knew what they were looking for but were making no progress, so they
decided to take a break and come back to the problem later. During the break,
one of the scientists went down to the company library and began browsing
through a French journal on ceramics. One of the articles told of a new ceramic
application that had just been developed. It turned out to be exactly the key
that the scientist had been looking for. He immediately took the article back
to the laboratory, and by applying the principle, they discovered the secret of
superconductivity. It was such an important scientific breakthrough that these
two men were awarded the Nobel Prize in physics the following year.
Once you have defined your problem clearly and researched it as thoroughly as
you can, speak to people who may have information that you can use. Its amazing
how much you can learn simply by asking questions of others who may have had
similar experiences. If you ask enough people, you can often find yourself in
the position of being better informed than any one of them could be, acting in
isolation. A friend of mine, who is a management consultant, was employed by a
large company to investigate the feasibility of placing a large sum of money in
a particular type of real-estate investment. Company executives asked him to
evaluate the possibilities nationwide and give them some advice on which
direction to go.
First of all, he went to the library and got copies of several articles that
had been written in this field over the past few months. After reading the
articles, he phoned some of the people and companies mentioned in the articles,
and told them he was thinking of investing a large amount of money in this
industry. He asked them for their insights and their ideas and what advice they
would give. Over the next few days, he spoke to about 30 people in different
parts of the country, all of whom specialized in this particular industry. Most
of them were quite open to giving him whatever information he required,
sometimes sending it via Federal Express, because they looked upon him as a
prospective investor.
By the time he was finished with his inquiries, he was one of the most
well-informed people on this subject in the United States. He then summarized
his findings and recommendations in a detailed report and submitted it to his
client, along with a bill of $30,000 for consulting services. The client read
the report and paid the bill willingly. And the consultant went on to his next
assignment. Your most valuable asset is your ability to think, and to apply
your mind toward getting results. The more you utilize your mental
capabilities, by doing the things that other successful people do with their
minds, the more successful and prosperous you will be, and the faster it will
happen for you.
Lets say that you have now defined your problem clearly, read and researched
thoroughly, asked others for their advice and input, and written down every
single detail of the problem or situation. The very act of writing out all the
details often stimulates intuitive breakthroughs that lead to ideas and
solutions that are superior to those that are currently being used. Once you
have written out the details, go over them several times, and let your mind
soak them up so that your right brain is properly fueled to synthesize and
integrate all the facts and respond intuitively. If you still have no solution,
your next step is to force yourself, discipline yourself, to write out 20 ways
in which you think the problem could be solved. Quickly write out 20 solutions,
or 20 answers or 20 courses of action, that might be possible. Forcing yourself
to think in this way will often trigger your intuition and bring you an answer
that will solve the situation perfectly. If you have followed the previous
steps and you still have not come up with a solution that satisfies you, take
the next step in intuitive decision making, which is called rumination or
cerebration. These words refer to the process of dropping all the information
into your subconscious mind and then just forgetting about it for a while.
During this period, your mind goes to work unconsciously to solve the problem
while you are busy doing something else.
When they reach a dead end in problem solving or decision making, many people
find it helpful to turn the entire matter over to their subconscious mind and
simply ask for an answer. A good time to do this is just before you go to
sleep. Sometimes you will wake up in the morning with the answer springing full
blown into your mind. In other cases, as long as you keep your mind on other
subjects, at a certain point the answer will emerge in its entirety, and you
will know exactly what to do.
How do you recognize an intuitive decision? How do you know that this is not
simply a decision or a solution that will lead to greater problems in the
future? Well, there are four indicators that accompany every intuition-based
solution or decision. First of all, if the answer is truly from your intuition,
it will come in a flash and be complete in every detail, answering every aspect
of the problem, from beginning to end. The solution will integrate all of the
various details and answer all of the concerns. Second, an intuitive solution
seems so simple that you wonder why you had not thought of it before. It feels
like a blinding flash of the obvious. You are amazed at how perfect it is, and
you have the feeling that it was lying under your nose all the time.
The third indicator of an intuitive decision is that, whatever it is, the
actions required are completely within your capabilities and your resources.
The solution will be something that you can do right now, with what you have,
right where you are. You can act on it immediately.
And the fourth indicator is that each intuitive flash or solution comes
accompanied by a burst of joy and energy, a feeling of elation, that excites
you and makes you happy and makes you feel eager to implement the solution. You
will be excited, and you will feel terrific about yourself.
Intuitive problem solving and decision making is your key to the future. It is
perhaps the most powerful faculty of your brain. And the regular use of your
intuitive abilities will make them better and stronger and sharper, until you
reach the point where you believe that there is really nothing that you cannot
do if you put your mind to it. And youre probably right.
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